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Anonymous asked: Hi, I posted a few days ago about my fiancée's psycho ex emailing him making stuff up & saying he shouldn't be with me. Well I took your advice, we both cut contact with her in any way we could but today & yesterday I've been getting a stream to anons on my tumblr telling me I don't deserve my fiancée & I'm a slut. I just made it clear that they couldn't possibly know what they're talking about & that if they're going to say stuff like that they shouldn't hide behind a grey face on the internet. I had mentioned on tumblr about how my fiancée is away at a stag night out & thats when they started today. It's always when I say something about him not being there, I think they're just trying to get to me when they know he isn't going to be there to tell me it's all complete bull. So far the only thing that was getting to me was that someone was honestly putting that much effort into trying to hurt me, nothing they said hurt me but the fact they had clearly sat on my tumblr for ages thinking of new stuff to say everytime I shot down a bitchy comment. But then I got an ask saying my fiancée is on a dating site, it was someone saying they care about me & they used slang very typical of someone local to where I live. I called my boyfriend to ask him what they were on about, I knew he'd used dating sites about 3 years ago because his ex had knocked any confidence he had out of him & it was the only way he could connect with anyone at that point. He even showed me it & then let me watch him delete it because he wanted to show I had nothing to worry about & he had nothing to hide. He assured me he didn't have any other accounts & asked me to check on the site to see if it was a false account. Turns out you can't even get onto the site without having an account which makes both of us think someone is just trying to cause trouble. I even googled his name & the name of the site because surely it would come up with a link even if I couldn't view the page without an account. There was nothing. At first my fiancée was really angry that someone was saying stuff to me & accusing me of things but he thought they'd stop after they realised they weren't doing anything to effect me or him. Now he is really mad. I understand why but he is asking all his friends if they know whats going on & asking if they know if anyone has a problem with me because it has to be someone who knows us by the way they were talking & what they were saying. I still think it's his ex but he doesn't want to say anything to her until we're sure or he really has to. I dunno, all this has just got me a little paranoid, I know thats what the people posting in my ask want but I can't help but be a little weary of the dating site thing. Also I don't understand why someone would go through this much effort to try hurt me. I've turned anon off on my tumblr but I'm guessing they'll just find another way to get to me if they really want to. If it is my fiancée's ex to be honest I'm getting a little freaked out, she is clearly just not going to stop. I just don't know what to do & needed to kinda spill my guts a little so I came here. I don't really have a question to ask or anything like that. I just want an opinion on whats happening & any advice on how to deal with this. I haven't dealt with bullying since I was 16 & at 19 it's kind of a shock, I'm just not sure how to handle this :/

Oh my….okay! Sooo, you’re doing the right thing by cutting her off and by turning anon off on tumblr. Because if it is her she can’t get to you now without you knowing about it. It doesn’t sound to me like you’re a slut btw, and don’t listen to what other people say because they’re stupid and know next to nothing about you! And, as for your fiance on dating sites, I’d just believe him for now until you get some real evidence because it seems like he’s been fairly good to you through this(: and as for him talking to the girl I would def wait until you REALLY have to talk to her. And, hopefully he won’t have to! Sorry I can’t be much more of a helpp! If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to ask!

Anonymous asked: so ive been dating this guy for a really long time. but his ex girlfriend has been telling him lies about me saying that im cheating on his or something. i dont get why she just cant leave us alone. like ive told her to and so has he but she just wont give up. and its been over a year. i dont know what else to do but i dont want to fight with him anymore just because she was saying all of these things about me... should i try and confront her again or talk to my boyfriend and see if he should say something?

talk to your boyfriend, he should be able to trust you and you should be able to tell him anything and he should believe your word over hers especially if that’s his EX and you’re his CURRENT GIRLFRIEND.

Anonymous asked: so my new boyfriend loves having his balls played with because his last girlfriend had like a huge mouth but they are so big and i cant fit them in my mouth. hes getting mad but i can only handle one at time. what do i do?

practice!

Anonymous asked: Okay so my boyfriend and I went out to dinner with my parents but they dont really know he's my boyfriend and he accidentally dropped the hint that me and my boyfriend were having sexual intercourse I am madly in love with him and I know we are only 13 but my parents now hate him! What do I do

You’re 13…you shouldn’t be having sex. period. Sorry, but it’s true.

Anonymous asked: my situation is a little different then others, and its kinda gross so thanks for taking the time to read it. so the other day my boyfriend was over and i had to go to the bathroom. i had to ya know... drop a deuce. so i guess i was taking to long so he barges in and smells it and just ran out of my house. i tried texting but he just would respond. his friend told me that he was just so grossed out and only likes girls who dont poop. hes so old fashioned..but were destined to be together. he just needs to accept my icky bathroom habbits. what do i do?

lol. 

Anonymous asked: My brother and his best friend were at my house and they caught me having sex with my boyfriend. And my boyfriend said that he wasn't doing anything because I was gross and he ran out. Should I still like him even though he denies being with me sexually.

Ehh, sure? Why not. It was probably really awkward with your brother there soooo…I can see why he freaked out.

Anonymous asked: so im pregnant but i dont know how to tell my parents. i mean my mom just thinks i gained alot of wait. she sent me fat camp and im going to feautured on too fat for 15. my boyfriend broke up with me because he just thinks i became obeese. he doesnt like more pushin for the coushin but i mean most guys like a little curve. how do i tell my loved ones that i am with child and what do i do if theyre response is not so good. gosh please help. thanks a bunch. love darla xoxo

You just have to tell them straight up, and they probably won’t have a good reaction but they’ll eventually accept it. I recommend for your sanity putting the baby up for adoption!

Anonymous asked: I'm pregnant and I'm only 15. My 16 girlfriend induced me with male sperm because she thinks that we are ready to be parents. I don't know wherte she got the sperm from probably her dad I think I'm ready but my parents said that I would have to move out but I'm too young to have a job. What should I do? Where should I get a job? Shod I be with this girl forever? Or ahold i give the baby up for adoption? I truly love e baby and i think i am mature enough to drop out and become a mommy

goodbye.

Anonymous asked: hi this is darla i know my question was weird but can you please answer it

I’m working as fast as I can!